Why do women think they have it harder than men?

Stop whining. Men look for appearance so that's what women focus on to attract you. If you cared about other things then we would be forced to have them as well. Women care about more aspects of a man, including the physical, emotional and financial. Men have no choice but to comply. If you don't like it then rally all the men together and decide to stop being shallow. That's all I can tell you.